CIVILITY

As the Episcopal Church prepares to create a liturgy for the “Blessing of Same Gender Unions,” it is important that no matter what our stance or convictions regarding the topic, that we remember to exercise civility towards those we are in disagreement. Otherwise we exercise divisive behavior that splinters the Body of Christ.

Civility describes the standards of behavior expected of users when they interact, and appropriate ways of dealing with problems that may arise. Civility means to always treat each other with consideration and respect. Civility helps maintain a pleasant environment for discussing difficult issues. Civility requires parties on both sides of an argument to behave politely, calmly and reasonably, even during heated debates.

People such as Abraham Lincoln were masterful at the use of civility and are great examples to follow. In the days that lie ahead as difficult issues are debated and differing opinions expressed, it is my most sincere hope that no matter what the outcome, we remember to treat one another with kindness, respect and civility.